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Style Dilemma














cardigan-Gap(similarish here), dress-Amazon, necklace-J.Crew(more options here), ring-Jewel Mint(similar here via Poshmark), kicks-Zara, sunnies-Target

This OOTD is an amalgamation of functional needs wrapped up(pun intended) in what I hope are fashionable choices. First, it's still hot AF here in Pittsburgh in OCTOBER(!!!!). So, I needed something lightweight, but not too skimpy for the office. I went with this polka-dot maxi sundress last seen here, and styled it with a wrap-cardi for work appropriate coverage. Then accessorized with fashion sneakers, a statement necklace, and my go-to polka-dot sunnies. It's a bit of a hodge podge of items, but overall I think it's a fun look. Or, who knows...?

This unending summer weather has really put me through the ringer. I have so few options that fit, are comfortable, are appropriate, and are nursing-friendly here in this heat and humidity. I broke down some of my outfitting/body challenges in this post. The lack of AC at home really does NOT help. Plus, I can't decide if I should keep my hair long (I will admit bangs were a mistake) or go back to my tried and true pixie.  Right now I'm in the midst of a style dilemma, and have considered retiring the blog all together.

But, expressing myself through my outfits has been a part of my life since I was a teenager and having this platform to share that with others, even with a small following is rewarding.  And, as my husband/photographer keeps reminding me--my body is in transition, just as it was with my first child (who will be 3 in next month 😮). So when you think about it, my body has gone through so many changes and transitions in the past three years and nine months, of course my personal style would be effected. And maybe if I had the moola to buy a whole new wardrobe, this wouldn't be such an issue, however I don't, I'm just trying to make it work with what I have. 

Before this becomes a stream-of-consciousness writing exercise let me say that for now I'm keeping the blog going with two-to-three posts a week, with the full acceptance that not every outfit is going to be as stellar as I would like. This hodge-podge ensemble being a prime example. But hey, I'm getting up every morning putting clothes on my body trying to reach the level of an outfit!  

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