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An Obsession Is Beginning

Okay so you may recall my excitement over my new harness from this post.  Well I think I may have a problem.  I want more harnesses and Asos has them here!!!!

I think this one is my favorite. I can see wearing it with a long flowing maxi dress to give it shape and add some edge to a hippy dippy look for summer.

Um yeah, boobs in a cage may not be the best look for me.

This is much more subtle then the two above and could be very elegant.

This is so badass and I love how futuristic/robotic it looks. 

I heart this so bad! The color is cool and sure the model is wearing a neutral/romantic dress I can see this with some of my plaid button shirts.

For the most part all of these items are in the $30-$40 range, which is way cheaper then my Zana Bayne harness.  And I think $30ish dollars for a novelty accessory isn't bad.  However, at times like these I hear my mother's voice in my head... Mom: "Bernadette, honey girl, where would you ever wear something like that?"  Me: "Everywhere!" Mom: "People are going to think you are quite odd." Me: "Well aren't I?"  Mom: "Yes but you don't have to advertise it."


I may have to content myself with this harness inspired T-shit, not as extreme, but a wink to my obsession.

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  1. That first one is super cool but unless you have an 18 inch waist and 19 inch hips it's going to a hard one to pull off. It looks great on that waaaay too skinny model. Though, I'm kind of worried about her.

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  2. I love the one with the white t-shirt. Great way to go from boring to rock star...I am even picturing the shoes I could wear with it...

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  3. Well Steph, if you have shoes already in mind then you MUST got for it!

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